Women + aging
If you're young & scared of getting old, one thing you can do is to learn to appreciate older women, to not discount them or use them as a joke, to intentionally change your view of their bodies & features so you see positives & not some scary future for yourself. It'll be far easier to accept yourself if you've had practice from afar. And it makes things better for the current oldies, eh? It's all the patriarchy, but it hurts much more coming from young women than from any man.
I probably should stop pretending that I don't like beards.
I love bearded ladies.
I keep telling bearded dudes how beautiful they are (sometimes I only fav the selfie... but YOU KNOW I THINK YOU ARE PRETTY!!!)
I have multiple fediverse crushes on people with beards.
Maybe just Maybe the whole beard thing isn't...
Naaaaahhhh... I don't like beards.
[art] A literal wall of cock
Dudleya cymosa. Also known as a "live forever" this is a very pretty succulent which grows in California and the southern parts of Oregon. Some sub-species are considered locally threatened.
Sadly, because they're such strikingly attractive plants, they're also targeted by poachers who abduct them from their native environments. Sadly, replanting them in the wild is difficult work.
Nochmal für alle, die mir hier folgen: Mein Hauptaccount, der viel aktiver ist, ist @Julia_Schmeer
Wenn ich Euch nur von hier folge, dann weil ich dusselig bin. Könnt mich dann gerne auf dem anderen Account anschreiben!
This is my main Account: @Julia_Schmeer
It's way more active than this one. If I only follow you from here, DM me there! It's just because I'm dumb.
A few things to think about before jumping into someone else's mentions:
✅ Am I being contrarian?
✅ Do I already have a relationship with this person, or am I being inappropriately familiar?
✅ Am I "ironically" doing exactly what this person just said not to do?
✅ Am I derailing another discussion in order to get on my own favourite hobby-horse or to one-up this person or show off how aware I am of social issues?
✅ Am I about to say "Are you surprised?" when someone is disappointed?
“People think that intimacy is about sex. But intimacy is about truth. When you realize you can tell someone your truth, when you can show yourself to them, when you stand in front of them and their response is ‘you’re safe with me’ - that’s intimacy.”
— Taylor Jenkins Reid, "The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo"
Every spring when the magnolia blossoms are out I make a point of smelling them. It is only a small windows of time and an excellent reminder to enjoy the moment. :)
Das ist mein Zweit-Account. Besuche mich auch unter @Julia_Schmeer
BEARDS! BREADS! BEARS?
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