"Social cues are hard for us because of the lack of clear rules. However, when it comes to commenting on others' appearance- I was taught one as a young girl.
The ten-second rule.
If the person cannot fix it in under ten seconds, do not comment on it. A bit of ketchup by their mouth? Button undone? Yep, you can say something- but politely and only to them. A change in weight? A scar? Hair loss? Nope, leave that alone."
@Juju I like it
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